1) Instead of "follow your heart" IT WOULD BE BETTER TO THINK your heart gets a vote but your head gets a veto
2) Rather than "Tell her exactly what you feel" BETTER TO first find out how she feels
3) Instead of a "Don't take rubbish from anyone" mentality WHY NOT GO FOR THE choose carefully which battles to fight approach
4) Instead of the quasi-triumphalistic "face your fears and do it anyway" WHY NOT seek to deal with what's holding you back
5) Rather than saying "I don't care what other people think" CONSIDER INSTEAD the source and situation of the criticism
6) In place of "Don't ever take "No" for an answer" WHY NOT ensure that their "No" is final
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